Register as a Member

Thank you for your interest in registering as a member of the TLC Trust. Please read the important information below before completing the registration form. Membership is not guaranteed, and each application must be individually assessed by the TLC Team.


Where asked to provide an identification photo – please use official ID such as a bus  pass or Passsport. For proof of disability – either a blue badge with your name on it, PIP letter or alternative proof. 

By creating an account with the TLC trust, new members agree to adhere to abide by the the terms set out in our  ‘Members Golden Rules’, below. 

Members who do not adhere to these rules may have their account suspended or terminated.  The TLC Trust team reserve the right to amend the details of an account or suspend/delete any account without warning.

Members' Golden Rules

You must have either a disability, disabling illness, learning difficulty, mental illness or be ASD. You can evidence this in a variety of ways including parking permits, receipt of certain benefits and letters from doctors or any other professional.

If you are already a member of The Outsiders then this also qualifies you.

You might wish to purchase a sexual service, but you don’t know what to expect or how to ask for things. Think – plan – then contact to book.

  • Please treat the service providers advertising on this site with the same respect you would any other professional. They experience a lot of people wasting their time and can have a decreased tolerance if they think you are messing them around. Think how you would book a hair appointment and do this the same way.

  • Read their profile thoroughly before making any initial contact. Check that they offer the services that you would like to try and that they are happy to work with the illness/disability/symptoms that you have. Check if they are happy to travel or not. There is no point contacting a provider and asking a load of questions that they have spent time and effort putting into their advert. They will probably consider you a timewaster and not engage.

  • If you do not have a profile, then give the service provider information they need to know such as your living situation, where you would like to meet, your disability/symptoms etc.

  • Do not talk or act in an abusive or threatening manner to service providers or other members.

  • Do not talk sexually to a potential provider until you have met them and paid for a service. They are not there to talk to you for free. There are telephone sex chat or text lines available for that. Tell them which services you would like but do not expect sex talk when making a booking.

  • Do not post, send or share any explicit images.

  • Do not haggle.

New Member Registration Form

Photographic Identification
Proof of disability
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Coronavirus Notice

Social distancing is a requirement of all UK citizens. More information on what you are permitted to do under the current conditions can be found on the Government's Website.

Because social distancing is a requirement of all citizens we would strongly encourage you to follow the Government's advice.


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